Children In The Collaborative Process
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Children in the Collaborative Process

Collaborative law is a proactive way for parents to work together to resolve family and children issues following a separation. Issues following a separation range from who the children will live with, the time they spend with the other parent, schooling, health and wider family involvement.

 

Children in the Collaborative Process

 

The collaborative process involves both parents instructing their own collaboratively trained lawyer and committing to working together to resolve matters by agreement through face-to-face, round table meetings. There is a commitment from all involved not to engage in court proceedings and the process prioritises open communication and encourages parents to discuss frankly and openly any issues and concerns.   Every family’s circumstances are unique and the collaborative process enables the parties to engage other professionals to assist them in reaching an agreement such as a family therapist/child therapist and consider any recommendations together.  The process itself enables the parents to focus on the welfare and well-being of the child.

 

The benefits of the collaborative process for parents are :

  • Focus on Child’s Best Interests:

The collaborative process emphasises the importance of making decisions that are in the best interests of the children involved.

  • Open Communication and Transparency:

Parents commit to providing information openly and honestly,  providing a more transparent and less confrontational environment.

  • Involvement of Professionals:

Collaborative lawyers, and potentially other specialists like child consultants/therapists, work together to support the family throughout the process.

  • Out-of-Court Resolution:

The goal is to reach an agreement without resorting to court proceedings, which can be faster and less stressful.

  • Commitment to the Process:

Both parties and their lawyers sign an agreement committing to resolving matters through collaboration and not going to court if the process breaks down.

 

The benefits of the collaborative process to the children are:

  • Reduced Conflict:

Collaborative law can minimise conflict between parents, which can be beneficial for children.

  • Improved Co-Parenting:

By encouraging open communication and a shared approach, it can support better co-parenting relationships.

  • Positive Forward Momentum:

The collaborative process can help families move forward with positivity, especially after a separation or divorce.

  • Child-Focused Solutions:

The focus on the child’s best interests ensures that decisions are made with their needs in mind.

 

The key to parenting together apart is communication and parents will often need to work together for many years.  The collaborative process helps set the foundation for this moving forwards.